Real Adult Talk.

Ladies speaking:
I need to call this my friend and check on them.
Because before you know you would heard that so and so has gone. Person need to be checking on his or her friend.

But the person you are thinking of calling? Is the person thinking of you or thinking of calling you.

Me I don't call people that don't check on me.

I have been calling some of my friends and they have not been returning my calls. At a point I just stopped calling them.

AJ, what do you have to say?

AJ Speaking;

There would be congestion when everyone are on the same page of calling one another. So let it be the way it is...it's quite interesting...

You see. Psychologically, you can never get a balance friendship.

People call on purpose. People would call you or only call you based on personal selfish motive.

Nobody just call to check on you.

Hi AJ, I'm just calling to check on you. Henn  henn...sorry how do I subscribe my data? The first one is the friendship. The second line is the motive.

We all are human.

We are product of selfishness.

Anything that interest us is what we flow with.

Some people are dating someone who is seeing them as mere supplier.

While some people are in a friendship that has expired a long time ago.

People manipulate a great deal.

There is manipulation from home,schools,marketplace,workplace and friends circle.

How do you feel when someone that hasn't check on you for many months just called you to get some informations from you.  And the persons body language speaks volumes that "I'm here to squeeze your brain. I'm here to get some fact from you. I'm doing this bcos I felt I am smarter than you".

This thing called manipulation is brainy. Some people are miserable. But they excel at using their brain to scattered human race.

A boss who called you and tell you he needed his or her report and not calling you to check on you is manipulating.

Companies who doesn't care about your well-being,mental health and where you stay ate manipulating you.

You see excessive silence in a group meeting is manipulation.

When you are expressing your feelings on things that matters or bordering you and your friend or colleague is saying "eya" "abi" or "hun hun" all these are manipulating. What is abi and what is eya.

Using and dumping your staff after using them to make money is manipulation. Many companies does this in Nigeria. They silent our Government with there own cut of the cake or share. So you are on your own.

Using people. Benefiting from people without them benefitting in return is called Schmoozing. So bad. But it's the modern world. Roll with it.

Reading someone status on a private mode especially when they have nothing to gain from you is called manipulation. It's only those ex bf ex gf that these hide and seek fit well for.

Manipulation has really come to stay.

Principles is far better than rules.

If we live our life on a good principle, we would do things from our heart. There would be balance and enough to go round.

And what do people gain from receiving rather than giving? I

When you doing all the taking in friendship. You are at danger. The listener is going to relay it to your enemies. And that is where people get to know much about you. You need to fear people that claimed to be silent or gentle.

Talking and silence are prerequisite to effective communication. Ensure you strike balance.

There is no secret all over.

Recording and screenshot ing people's conversations without their consent is not just manipulation but it is called Abuse.